A Simple Hello Can Start Something Good

You see a girl at a bookshop.

You would like to talk to her.

First, take a slow breath.

Smile if it feels natural.

Walk over when she is not busy.

Say, “Hello, how are you?”

Speak in a calm voice.

You can ask about the book she is holding.

For example, say, “Is that book good?”

Listen to her answer.

Do not talk only about yourself.

Ask one more friendly question.

You can tell her your name.

Keep your words simple and kind.

Do not ask very personal questions.

She may want to keep reading.

If so, say, “Nice to meet you.”

Then let her enjoy her book.

If she wants to talk, enjoy the chat.

A friendly hello is a good start.